Mass Shootings & Teens
After every mass shooting there is a parade of shock and outrage. It has become a political charade of national platitudes. It is not a plan.
Yes, children are growing up in a tech-centric culture. And yes, it is a culture which can sometimes overshadow other important aspects of their development. But some things have not changed.
Preteens and teens still need social and emotional support systems. Solely focusing on metal detectors, street patrols, legislation, and law enforcement are important for immediate safety concerns, but these measures scratch the surface of a much deeper issue.
A "balanced social and cultural diet" for this age group is a daily requirement. Year-round programs for preteens and teens are more important now than ever. Opportunities that focus on building character, resilience, and emotional intelligence offers a path for long term change.
They need us to help them engage with program models that are mainstream. Structured programs that will help them to grow and become masters of their own destiny. They need to see that it is possible for them to navigate their lives in a way that avoids violence and encourages personal growth.
This is needed especially in neighborhoods where preteens and teens engage in extreme violence as a problem solver.
A "balanced social and cultural diet” will help this age group embrace alternatives to violence and aspire to want to do better.
They need us, the adults in the room, to have a plan. Platitude is not a plan. We have to do better if we expect this age group to be better.